I have always thought of myself as a good people reader. See, I believe that to be good with people you have to be able to read them. Let's start at the beginning:
I hate the human race for the most part. Okay, not totally, what I mean is that I am not a social butterfly. I do alright with people in small doses lol. I am a mother of two children who works a career as a waitress, but I surround my personal life with very few. My contacts list in my phone is not lacking in the numbers category, but I don't see all these people daily or monthly, sometimes not at all in years. My FaceBook is popping. I describe myself as a hermit (a home body) and for the most part enjoy my home and Family way more then others.
People, meaning all of us myself included, are so complicated. Everything we say and do is compared to how we do it and what we say, then divided by our body language and tone, plus eye contact and nervous ticks we finally get half what the other person really wants from us. Without even knowing it our body language or timing of when we say something is judged and picked apart as we are saying it.
Human beings have many sides, but lucky for us we all do and we are not all on the same page at one time. We have all done good and bad in our lives. We have all made great decisions and horrible choices in our lives. We all get mad and yell. We smile when we are happy. We sing in the privacy of our cars. We cry when we hurt. We bleed the same color.
Bravo again! Well said.
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